Out of Chaos an organizing newsletter
What’s Your Better?
We’ve been talking about developing the habit of buying less but better.
But what is better? People assume, sometimes correctly, that better is more expensive, and presumably also of better quality. But “better quality” doesn’t necessarily mean designer labels.
It can simply mean buying fewer things that are more you. As you’ve worked on weeding your closet, maybe you’ve seen how much you’re getting rid of has been purchased under the influence of fleeting trends. Does that inspire you want to commit to buying only clothes that feel like you, rather than the latest trend?
Buying better can also include choosing things produced in ethical ways, whether it’s clothing not made in sweatshops or cage-free chicken. It can be buying things that are more environmentally conscious, such as BPA-free water bottles or products made out of recycled materials.
It isn’t easy. Sometimes, it’s hard for me to find something made in the USA, that is also flattering and that I can afford. Sometimes, I just give in and buy my daughter Aeropostale shirts for $6 each, even though I’m sure they’re made out of chemicals by underpaid labor. But I’m not asking you to be perfect, I’m just asking you to be better. Think about what better means to you.
Maybe you thought buying inexpensive shirts at H&M would save money, but they fall apart after one wash. Rather than replace them with more cheap, poorly made shirts, perhaps you will commit to buying fewer, but well-made clothes from now on.
Maybe you want to stop shopping at Ikea and invest some more “grown up” furniture.
What is your better? Strive for it. Experience a little self-denial when what’s available doesn’t meet your standard. You won’t die. You’ll be stronger, richer and you may just develop a signature style.